Love makeup! You might be able to tell from some of my old posts and videos but lately I have COMPLETELY fallen off. I have an ipsy Glam Bag subscription, and squeal when a new bag comes in the mail. I open the bag and get so excited about all the new items in the bag. Then I set it aside and leave no time to actually use them. Well…maybe  I use one or two of the items but put them down shortly after. This has been going on for almost 6 months! 6 months of product just sitting there.

It definitely had something to do with moving, and then just the loss of interest in looking good. Crazy….when I think about it now, but I see how easily it happened. I used to get ready and go to work everyday. But … Read More »

Hi, my name is Kala and I’m a shoe addict. What’s crazy about this little tidbit of knowledge is that I’m just now realizing it. LOL! Had no idea I was into shoes like…GASP…my mother!

Nothing makes me happier than to find a fly pair of shoes on SALE! These little beauties were about 80% off at the BCBG Max Azria in my local mall. To be honest I had my eye on these for a while. Months in fact. BCBG is one of my favorite stores to browse (and buy from on occasion) whenever I go to the mall. I was hoping I could get these during the holiday on sale (as they are retailed at $195.00), but even when they were 60% off my size wasn’t available! UGH!

My lucky day: Boo-thang and I went to see “About Last Night” … Read More »

Beans,  beans, they’re good for your heart… lol! My brother would finish that jingle. Anywhoo, do you like chickpeas? Garbanzo beans? Same thing, they’re a great source of fiber,  iron, folate, phosphorous, protein and can even lower your cholesterol! As a Pescetarian I’m pretty fond of them. I’ve made patties for burgers, hummus and just cook them in veggie stir-fry dishes during the week. Like this one! This recipe is super quick and easy, I’ll make sure to record a video for it one day, but until then try it out!

The key to this dish is the texture of the beans. I get my beans by bulk and soak them over night in a bowl of water or cheat by buying them canned. If you buy dry beans soaking is crucial to making sure that the … Read More »

There is nothing more exciting than opening up a gift from one of your favorite stores. Boo-Thang came over on Valentine’s Day with roses, this lovely set from Banana Republic and breakfast in hand. We both worked from home that day and went out to dinner that night. My secondary love language is Gifts so I was excited to see if what he got me fit my taste and style. YUP! LOL! I’ve been looking for more statement necklaces and this had been added to the collection. I’ve worn it multiple times but more recently to Dark & Lovely’s #LovemyCURLS event in the city. You’ll see this piece in some upcoming videos and OOTDs. Stay tuned!

Peace & Blessings,

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 Owwww, it’s date night! I tried using some rollers on the front section of my hair with TGIN’s Moist Collection for Natural Hair. It was the first time that I set my hair without using a setting lotion (usually containing alcohol) for hold. It turned out well if you ask me! Check it out and tweet me to let me know what you thought.

I want to try and do more hairstyles period. LOL, I usually am less than impressed by my twist outs and thangs, so I revert to my wash n go week in and week out. Now that’s getting old. So let me know what you think about this style and what other types of styles you’d like to see! Oh yeah, hit me up on IG too! Oh yeah, that’s Boo-Thang in the video. … Read More »

Yes…yes, I know…it’s been awhile. To be honest I actually forgot about my blog.

LOL! Not really….but it’s definitely been on the back burner lately. If you watch my vlogs you’ll know that I recently got a new job: THANK YOU JESUS, HALLELUJAH! I’m still in the network engineering field, but have been blessed to work on a national team in a slightly less technical capacity.

Oh! Did I mention that the job is in NEW JERSEY!?! Central Jersey to be exact. It’s kinda cold here. HA! It’s SUPER cold here….below freezing temps in the middle of day…wind that literally blows you away. And the sun? What sun? Yeah, I recently realized that I’ve got SAD or Seasonal Affective Disorder (the Winter Blues). It’s real, I promise! Look it up!

Anywho, the transition to the east coast has definitely been just that..a major … Read More »

Hey y’all!  2 quick things:

I’ve gotten your messages, your tweets and I hear you Nicole (friend) about the Soufeel giveaway.  My site just went through some changes behind the scenes and it’s not allowing comments at the moment.

Sooooo pleaseeeeee go here on Facebook and comment on the post featuring the giveaway! I want to be fair and make sure that everyone interested is able to enter.

Secondly…..*DRUM ROLL PLEASE* I will be blogging (and maybe vlogging) EVERYDAY in November! YES, I’ll be snapping pictures throughout my day to feature here on thekglifestyle.com and vlogging too! Here’s the thing, I know how annoying it can be to get emails daily from a site, so I’d like to make sure you all aware of your subscription options.

By clicking on “Manage Subscriptions” you can manage how often, if at all, you’d like to receive emails from … Read More »

I’m having a giveaway….because….I feel like it! Basically! LOL!

I have a Soufeel bracelet myself. I ordered it awhile ago (Christmas time) with a matching bracelet for my Mom.

I feel like I can only wear my bracelet for special occasions, but I could totally wear it anywhere. It’s an awesome way to personalize your jewelry. Want to enter to win the bracelet pictured? See below!

So for this week’s giveaway here are the rules!

This Week’s Entry Rules:

1. Subscribe to receive updates from thekglifestyle.com. Chances are you’re already subscribed if you saw this post by email ;)

2. Comment ON FACEBOOK,  letting me know you’d like to be entered. I don’t want to pick a winner that doesn’t care for the bracelet. So you’ve got to let me know!

That’s it! The prizes and rules will change every week, so make … Read More »

This jacket gives me LIFE! It’s the Brief Slim Fit Biker Jacket from ROMWE (links below) and it’s my current fav! Now, I’m all about the truth telling life and I must admit it’s a bit small for my frame. But ask me if I care. The sleeves are actually longer than some of my other jackets and it zips (barely)! I hope you enjoy these shots and don’t forget to subscribe to my blog so that you can be entered into the giveaway to win a $50 gift card from ROMWE! YES, this giveaway is international! :)

Look 1

Brief Slim Fit Biker Jacket- ROMWE.com

Dress- Pitaya

Tights – Forever 21 (their plus size tights are longer with the same stretch!)

Scarf- 2b

Boots- Guess (from TJ Maxx)

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Here it is! After many many requests, here’s how I blended my straight ends with my curly hair when I transitioned from heat damage. We all have our reasons for big chopping or NOT big chopping. If you’re transitioning ROCK OUT that hair ladies! Use your transitioning period to learn you hair and when you’re ready, CUT IT! :) Stay tuned for more style for transitioners! Enjoy!

This is also a great way to preserve your ends whether you’re transitioning or not!

Did you find this video helpful? Like, Subscribe, Comment and Share!

http://www.qhemetbiologics.com/

Qhemet Biologics Products used in this video:

Cocoa Tree Detangling Ghee: http://tinyurl.com/jvzcpye
Burdock Root Butter Cream: http://tinyurl.com/26o837u
Use the Aethiopika Hydrate & Twist Butter for your ends!: http://tinyurl.com/m77kapt

The OLD Satin Braid Out video….for laughs! LOL!

Peace & Blessings,

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Big Hair, DON’T Care! I recently revisited the flexi rod set and created a long awaited tutorial for it using NEW products.

I love this look SO MUCH, it creates curls that really give me the volume I wish I had naturally.

You can create the look you want with natural hair and I wanted big curly hair for The She Is Project Launch Event. Check out how I got ready for the event and how I made my flexi rod set SERVE the big hair I wanted!

Remember that your hair has SUPER POWERS! All you have to do is learn it, learn to love it and DO IT! :) Until next time…

Peace & Blessings,

YAY! I’ve finally kicked off my WEEKLY giveaway series! I love to give back to my supporters to show them just how much I appreciate their love and support. This has been in the works for awhile so I’m so happy to finally kick it off! I’ll be giving away something related to fashion, beauty or health EVERY Friday!

This week I’m giving away TWO pairs of leggings from Romwe.com. JUST in time for fall and the colder months. If chosen as one of the winners you’ll get to choose one of the over 500 pairs here:  http://www.romwe.com/By-ROMWE-Leggings-c-201_45.html. AND, this week’s giveaway is international! :)

This Week’s Entry Rules:

1. Subscribe to receive updates from thekglifestyle.com. Chances are you’re already subscribed if you saw this post by email ;)

2. Sign up at Romwe http://www.romwe.com/

3. Subscribe Romwe channel  http://www.youtube.com/user/romweshop

That’s it! The … Read More »

Versatility!

I’m here for it, all day errday. I love changing up my look and using different styles to help me reflect how I’m feeling. I’ve been all over the place lately and my hair has reflected that.

Check out my latest hairstyles and let me know if you’ve tried any of them lately!

Flat Twist Out on Flat Ironed Hair

Straightening My Hair (damage -free I might add)

Super Duper EASY waves on Flat Ironed Hair

What to do when your ‘do is a FAIL!

It’s BACK! The Faux Hawk with clear shots and narrated instructions!

YASSSSSS! That was the exact word that came from me when I got an email from TalkofDetroit.com announcing that Janelle Monae would be at PV Lounge in Detroit last night promoting her new CD The Electric Lady (September 10).

I own each Suite from Janelle Monae.  My favorite is the last however: (The ArchAndroid). Cold War being on of my favorites on the album as well as Tightrope, which she performed at the Noble Peace Prize Concert. J.Monae embodies so many of the qualities I venture to possess. She is my role model. Meeting her was definitely a highlight of my ENTIRE life. She is an activist, a pop star and a Cover Girl! She uses her voice to define herself and gives a voice to so many other black girls around the world. She’s fearless. Her lyrics are so powerful and heavy. She charges … Read More »

This month I got some cool goodies from Daily Look and managed to put them together all into one outfit! I was totally surprised that the blazer was so well made. The statement necklace and bangle are of equal quality and just awesome pieces! Buttoned up the blazer definitely gives off a more professional vibe. Something great to wear to a happy hour or mixer. I threw in another pattern for contrast using my high-waisted SUPER comfortable shorts. To give the outfit a couple of pops of color I grabbed my bright magenta wedges with earrings to match. this outfit was so comfortable! The blazer actually buttoned without too much of a struggle but I prefer the look with it unbuttoned

Totally satisfied with what I got from Daily Look! Can’t wait to pair the … Read More »

So if you’ve been a long time follower of mine you know that I love to volunteer and spread the word about an organization that teaches young Black girls the many faucets of coding and technology, called Black Girls Code. Last year I had a blast volunteering and helping out and this year it’s back! Check out how you could win  a live video consultation with me by donating to a great cause! It’s win-win-win!

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

I was on a mission to get to church early this morning! Last night I decided that since I didn’t get my 45 minute step aerobics session done that I needed to do Yoga in the morning. The studio I go to (got that $30 for 20 class Groupon-BOOP) only holds morning classes on the weekends so church at 8:45am was my only option if I wanted to get to my 11:15am Slow Flow on the Wall class!

8:45am it was (I was 10 minutes late :-/) and when I got back I felt cute enough to break out the T3i! Not with the 18-55mm lens tho. With that good ol’ 50mm..BAM! LOL! I take great pride in getting dressed for church. I have a mother who was raised in the country down South and it’s just a simple requirement to … Read More »

YUP! I finally posted a video about the way I TRY to manage my money and how I plan to do better. The Get My Life Savings Challenge is a personal challenge that I’ve invited you all to try with me! Let’s get it ladies!

There is no reason that we shouldn’t have what we want! I want something (a complete 8 month emergency fund) so I’m going to get my life and be about THAT life to get it! What is it that you want? Make a goal and set up your budget. We can keep each other on track for the remainder of the year and share ideas!

Check out the details below and let me know if you’ll be joining me!

Peace & Blessings.

Kala

Sooo, for those of you who have followed my channel for awhile you may have noticed a few dark spots on my forehead. Let’s not get it twisted, I am blessed. I don’t have bad acne that’s uncontrollable, in fact when I go on a juicing binge (lol) my skin looks luminous! But I like cheese, and chocolate and cheese and apple blossoms and cheese too! I don’t always remember to use my Mario Badescu Drying Lotion or my Rare Earth Pore Cleansing Masque from Kiehl’s  or even my PMD (Personal Microderm). So an occasional breakout leads to hyper-pigmented spots and THEN I usually forget to use my Vitamin E Oil on them to help them fade. TOO much right?!?!  WELP, Antipodes Skin Care to the rescue! I love this stuff.

I have now used these products for a month and am … Read More »

Hey Hey!!!!

I’m finally launching a t-shirt that I feel reflects my theory about natural hair, the movement and its affects on the community. Too often I feel as though we are too focused on other people and ourselves. The natural hair movement has brought some very vain personalities out in some of us (I’m including myself at times). Others seem SO focused on the personal choices that other people make with their OWN hair and body.

The IDEA: I thought about this concept sitting in Bible study one night. It’s a motto that I’ve used in the past when I feel fear or unworthiness creep up on me. I re-adjust my thoughts knowing that this life we live here is NOT about us. It’s about fulfilling God’s purpose for our lives. There’s a double meaning … Read More »

Summer brings me happiness! As a San Diego native, winter used to be my favorite season. A San Diego winter that is, slightly rainy 6-7 days during the winter months, LOL.  so now that I’m in Michigan I BASK in the sunshine and soak up all that I possibly can! Here are a couple of outfits I put together for leisurely outings. Let me know what you think! :) 

Check out the video for more details! :)

Lace Insert Tunic-Daily Look

Clutch-Target

Tights- Forever 21

Flats-DV (Nordstrom)

Tank-Target

Sandals-DV (Nordstrom)

Tribal Choker-Daily Look

Earrings-For Love

I recently went to Daily Look to find out what all the fuss was about. Month after month I saw that Clothes Encounters (one of my favorite styling channels) featured the site in some of the looks that they put together. It was a super cool site and I loved the looks they put together. Check out my video of the two looks i put together! I can’t wait until it warms up so that my Spring Look Book will be revelant. It snowed yesterday and is currently storming as I pen this article. Le sigh.

Have you ordered anything from Daily Look?

4 Things Every Curly/Coily Should Know
1.

Dryness is the enemy: You may be tired of hearing about keeping your hair moisturized, but it can’t be emphasized enough! The weather and other elements attack our coily hair and dry it out. Using a moisturizer daily or when needed is important when trying to prevent breakage and promotes growth and shine.

2.

Oil could be the enemy: If you’re applying oil to your hair to “seal” the cuticle and wondering why your hair looks dry regardless, you may be applying your oil at the wrong time during your regimen. Applying oil to your hair before your leave-in conditioner or moisturizer closes the cuticle. This blocks the moisture you’re attempting to add to your hair. Oil is like a cherry on an ice cream sundae for your hair. It ‘tops’ off your … Read More »

It’s been quite a while since I’ve created a styling tutorial on my channel. So I’ve decided to post a hair-styling video every week next month!

Week 1:

Week 2:

Which style would you like to see created next?

Bantu Knot Out

Roller Set

Straight Hair

Blow Out

pollcode.com free polls 

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

Up until last year I made fries with yellow or red potatoes. They were fried most times, seldom baked. Then somehow I discovered sweet potato fries. My love for sweet potato fries ran deep, but I had never made them myself. So I looked up a recipe and tried them! This dish is now a staple in my kitchen. A quick side dish for a meal tossed in garlic and Parmesan cheese or for dessert tossed in brown sugar and cinnamon. Check out the video below and try them out!

Do you cook sweet potato fries? Do you fry them? Bake them?

P.S. For crisper fries, coat with oil and cook on 450 degrees F.

Over the winter my hair was so angry at me. At first I thought it was because I was neglecting it, but in retrospect my regimen really wasn’t that different than in other seasons. I really thought that the wash n go winter I’d hoped for was not possible. Until one day the Q-Redew came into my life and everything changed. I used it to re-shape  and restore moisture in my hair mid-week. After a few uses I realized that I COULD wash n go each with just 2 extra minutes added to my regimen mid-week! My schedule and my hair didn’t suffer. As the weather warms up I still use the Q-Redew to re-shape my hair and it’s the best de-tangler I’ve heard used (stay tuned for that instructional vid).

Check out the videos below and let me know your thoughts on … Read More »

I colored my hair using the new Shea Moisture Hair Color System in Dark Golden Blonde. After watching several reviews I knew that I would need to apply the color twice (one to lighten, one to color), so I bought two boxes (from Target) and applied each two weeks apart. Have you applied color to your natural hair using the Shea Moisture Color system? What has your experience with it? Enjoy!

Peace & Blessings

Kala

I’m addicted to positive energy. I gravitate towards it. I stop and shake its hand. I give it a hug and hope some of it rubs off on me. So, I was naturally stoked when I was recently made aware of Beaz & Honey an online vintage accessory store for every woman from every women. Beaz & Honey is from the creators of Y.A.B. or Young, Ambitious and Beautiful. The women of Y.A.B. ooze positivity and I was so excited to  share their new venture with you all.

More Info:

Beaz & Honey is an e-commerce website focused on handmade and vintage apparel, shoes, and accessories for every woman from every woman. Unlike many popularized online consignment shops, the motto of Beaz & Honey is “from my closet…to yours”. The purpose is for women of all age categories to come together and share their unique style and iconic … Read More »

Have you ever stretched yourself so thin you fell flat in your endeavors? Welp, that was me. I took on too much with Black Hair Power, The KG Theory AND The KG Lifestyle YouTube Channel. So, I’ve streamlined some thangs. All of my creative outlets and interests right here on The KG Lifestyle (Blog Edition). If you were a follower of my old sites, THANK YOU! I think you’ll find that the information here is much more organized and easy to find. Black Hair Power will continue to be a place where you can share your stories of triumph and how your hair care journey has changed you. The KG Theory will still contain posts of opinion, favorites and randoms. And now there’s MORE!

I’m so thankful and blessed for the opportunity to share my lifestyle with you all. I hope that … Read More »

Plantains are one of my top 5 favorite foods! I love to fry them in coconut oil and recently tried making them more of a dessert. I buy 4-5 at a time at my fruit and veggie market and patiently wait for them to ripen to my liking. Enjoy my recipe and let me know what you think about the video? Easy/difficult to follow? My goal is to make my recipe videos quick and easy to follow so I want to hear from you!

Find a local fruit and veggie market near you to save on fresh produce. Click HERE to search or Google ”Fruits and vegetable market near [Insert Zip Code here]“.

Love this little neighborhood boutique. 

They are located in various cities across the US (including Detroit!)

Check out my Haul video on thekglifestyle :)

Color and I are like coconut oil and my hair. We just go together. I wear pops of color everyday to work, but I’m very aware that too much color could be a distraction. Initially I was afraid of wearing my new bright orange skinny jeans from Urban Outfitters but went for it by playing the brightness down.  I paired the jeans with an oversized jean blazer also from U.O. and a shirt from NY &amp; Company. My necklace was also from U.O. in gold. Brown flats (from GAP) were an obvious choice for shoes as black would too dark and any other bright color would overdo it.

By the end of the day I was more than comfortable in my orange jeans, lol. I’ll be challenging myself more to play with color at work from now on! :) I swooped my old curls to the side with … Read More »

I’m a huge hip-hop fan! Although my jazz phase kept me from most of the classic hip-hop growing up, I’ve embraced the music in my 20s. One of my favorite groups/artists are Talib Kweli and Mos Def of Black Star. Tyi3284 let me know about a show sponsored by Live Nation in Detroit. I rarely pass up on seeing one of my favs so I had an idea of what I would wear before I had tickets!

I rocked a black vest over a light brown A-tank and pink corduroys with my new shoes from Old Navy (LookBook coming soon!)

My Wash ‘n Go!

I was tagged a number of times and finally got around to taping this! :)

Enjoy! Leave a comment here or on the video asking your curly hair questions! :)

Read Up!

I write regularly for naturallycurly.com. My articles highlight all kinds of cool tidbits like how honey could cure your allergies as well as give you shiny hair and clear skin. Check out my articles at the link below! :)

See the latest from Kala, HERE.

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Peace & Blessings,

 KG

I love small businesses! The owners put so much into what they do with love and care. Here’s a recent company that I came across that makes beautiful hair accessories perfect for the natural hair divas!

Introducing…Flowers From Fatima:

Flowers From Fatima is a blossoming online boutique that carries handmade hair flowers and accessories for women with natural hair. You can find anything from romantic hair clips and trendy headbands for casual wear and special occasions! With Valentine’s Day approaching, hair candy from Flowers From Fatima makes the perfect gift. PROM season is also approaching. Flowers From Fatima has a couture line of accessories that are embellished with Swarovski Crystals for the girls who love to SHINE. 

Here’s a treat! Get a 25% discount with the code: “KGT25.” when you order from Flowers From Fatima!!!

http://www.etsy.com/shop/flowersfromfatima

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

This single has been out for awhile, but Ms.Baker is out there promoting it! This woman’s spirit and VOICE just give me life! Love her and this song! Take a listen.

#SuperFan

I met my favorite artist of all time! Read about it here.

Peace & Blessings,

KG

Loving this artist! Just discovered her and SO wish I was in New York to come to her show TONIGHT!

Take a listen to her soulful music! Refreshing, feel good tunes.

I will definitely be in the house at her next Chicago/Midwest show!

See details below and support if your in the NYC area! :)

Complimentary Event Premiums:

1.  SoUL Beautiful Gift Bag (everyone)

2.  71 Jules Multifaceted Dress (1 Person) http://www.71jules.com/

3.  Experience SoUL Beautiful LIVE! (EVERYONE)

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

Eiffel Tower-Paris, France

I’ve been putting off this post in hopes that I don’t wake up from the DREAM that this trip was. But it’s inevitably over and the sooner I realize it the sooner I’ll start getting my stacks up so that I can take another excursion. LOL!

How it all started:

For YEARS I had dreams of traveling to Morocco. In fact since 2009, when I lived in Sudan, Morocco became a desired destination for me. Unfortunately, living on my English teacher salary did not grant me that wish (although I was blessed to see Dubai, Ethiopia and Egypt). So I had to table Morocco….for sometime. Last year (2011) I started saving for the trip and planned it accordingly. After researching, researching and researching I decided to go when the busy season was dying down; in November. Prospective flights … Read More »

While shopping in Marrakech, I stumbled (yeah right) upon a Zara at the Marrakech Plaza (Aldo and Etam also had stores there). Of course I browsed and tried on almost 10 things, but in the end I decided on only this wonderful dress. I put it on hold for 2 days (store policy) before I just went for it. It’s called the Fitted Checked Dress, and oh is it fitted! LOL! Perfect for Sunday morning or a business meeting, I absolutely LOVE how it feels on. I find myself wondering if I had clothing tailored for me if this is how it would feel…

I had no choice but to have a photo shoot showcasing this creation in the comfort of my living room, lol. The masks on each side of me are from a trip to Ghana years ago. They made me feel like a … Read More »

Join me in a challenge using castor oil this winter!

 My Goals:

1. Healthier Scalp

2. Thicker Hair

3. Split-End ATTACK!

RULES:

Apply a mixture or just plain castor oil to your scalp and ends of hair every other day or as often as you see fit. Let’s grow thicker, healthier hair this winter! Challenge ends March 1st, 2013

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

 Coming soon! 

I am on the cover of the December 2012 issue of Keep It Kinky Magazine. 

Check out the site and enter the current giveaway! :)

http://www.keepitkinky.net/

Peace &amp; Blessings,

Kala

I first heard of Paul Brunson from the articles he writes for Essence on dating and relationships. His advice about how to go about the dating world in the world we live in now, is refreshing because it’s no non-sense. I’ve re-twittered a many of his tips and articles. I appreciate him breaking down the facts and encouraging us single ladies to “be real and honest”. When I heard about his new book I was excited to get my hands on it and then I found out that he was coming to Detroit. YASSSSS!

I appreciate him coming to the city I feel is often skipped over and that suit jacket.

The event was held at Prive Duex and was intimate and comfortable. I grabbed a seat towards the front with no expectations. I definitely was hoping to learn a thing or two though!

Brunson breaks … Read More »

After seeing headlines read ” Curly Nikki Goes (insert city)” or “Curly Nikki Takes (insert town)” forever I finally got notice that Chicago was next. As a current Detroit resident I travel to Chicago fairly often so reading “Chicago” didn’t phase me. I knew I had to be there for the fun. And it was FUN! With lots of beautiful women sporting natural hairstyles and chic ensembles to match! I love being in the presence of positive women with a common interest.

I also reunited with my big sister Michelle Breyer (Co-Founder of NaturallyCurly.com) at the event!

Celebrity Hairstylist Ursula Stephens , Michelle Breyer and Curly Nikki

Celebrity Hairstylist Ursula Stephens explains the products and techniques she used on each model’s hair.

Curly girls look on…

Downstairs Japonais Restaurant created a chic, elegant atmosphere.

Happy curly girls with … Read More »

A week or so ago Black Girls Code came to Detroit! I was so excited because after hearing about this AWESOME organization on Twitter I was looking for opportunities to get involved. They strive to reach girls who would not otherwise get access to this type of knowledge or opportunity:

“BlackGirlsCode has set out to prove to the world that girls of every color have the skills to become the programmers of tomorrow. By promoting classes and programs we hope to grow the number of women of color working in technology and give underprivileged girls a chance to become the masters of their technological worlds.” - Black Girls Code

After completing the volunteer application I was set to help as a non-technical volunteer.  I attended  the volunteer training the night before the program day where we packed the registration bags and organized materials for the girls. I thought it was amazing … Read More »

Are you a newbie? Getting started can be a daunting task but don’t fret! The first thing to do when transitioning or embarking on a healthy hair journey is to decide on a routine or regimen. It’s best to keep it simple when starting out so we’ve broken it down for you. There are a few things to consider when creating a regimen.

Start Here:

1. Cleanser/Co-Wash: Sulfate-free shampoo is best for curly-kinky-coily hair because it doesn’t strip the hair of its natural oils like sulfate containing shampoos do. Alternatively wash your hair with conditioner.

2. Conditioner: Always detangle your hair while wet and saturated with conditioner. Use a wide-toothed comb or your fingers, detangling from the ends on up.

3. Deep Conditioner: Apply a deep conditioner to your hair once a week. Cover your hair with … Read More »

When trying to find the best products for your hair it’s easy to become a product junkie. Even after you find a product you like, the thought there might be a better product out there looms on us. We’re here to help!

5 Tips to Combat Product Junkie-ism

Tip #1: Stick to buying products that mirror your regimen. 1- Cleanser, 1- Conditioner, 1-Deep Conditioner, 1-Leave-In Moisturizer/Styler,  1-Sealant

Tip #2: Pay attention to the labels! Make sure to take note of the ingredients that DON’T work for your hair to avoid unnecessary purchases. On the flip side buy 2-3 of a product that DOES work for your hair, especially when it’s on sale.

Tip #3: Don’t buy a new products until the product type has run out. Try your best not to get anxious when a new product comes on the market. If you have 3 … Read More »

“What can I do with my hair?” Is that your question? We may have a solution for you. It can be daunting when it comes to styling your hair. Maybe you’ve found a style you like but you’ve grown out of it or your bored with it. Braid-outs are a perfect way to keep your styling options endless.

Reasons Why Braid-Outs Could Be Your Next Go-to Style:

1. It’s easy! As long as you can braid a plait you can do this style!

2. It’s versatile! Once you braid out your hair the possibilities are endless. Pin it up, create a pompadour, bun it up….

3. It’s easy to maintain! After the initial style a two plait, four plait, or six plait up is all you need to do every 2-3 nights (or every night depending on preference).

4. It’s low manipulation! Low manipulative styles are essential to length retention (longer hair). Hair tools are … Read More »

BHP’s definition of “Transitioning”: No longer using harsh chemicals or extreme heat that causes severe and/or permanent damage, leaving the hair somewhat unaltered.

Is it REALLY just hair?

Truthfully it can be just about the hair. But chances are, if you’re consistently getting to know your hair texture for the first time it’s not. So much goes into a woman’s appearance so it’s important to recognize how our hair relates to our well-being – mentally, spiritually, and physically- when embarking on any change.

 So you want to “go natural”?

There are a few questions you might want to ask yourself when deciding to wear and perhaps style your hair.

Grab a pen and paper and answer these questions to self-reflect and set some goals:

1. What does being natural mean to you?

2. How long have you altered your hair from it’s natural state?

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Author: Belinda Malone

Who Has the Right to Tell You What’s Natural?

The natural hair movement is more popular than ever before,  with an increasing number of women making the choice to go for the BC. Even the New York Times is running features on their online site about black women making the choice to ditch the chemical straighteners and embrace their naturally textured hair.

This is an amazing opportunity for women to finally accept the hair that God gave them and refuse to succumb to the pressure from society and the media to ‘westernize’ their looks. However, it is also a topic that is becoming increasingly politicised and women who haven’t transitioned seem to be coming under pressure from those who have been trying to push them to follow suit.

Source

The multi-talented Solange Knowles has worn her hair … Read More »

Why Won’t My Hair Grow?

Here is the series on my recent haircut! I went to Salon Spargo in Farmington Hills, MI and had my hair cut by Marni, a Devachan trained stylist.

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

I’m loving BLACK for the summer so far. I usually pair a black shear shirt with a bright colored bottom or wear black accessories with a bright colored outfit. Here I paired a Forever 21 maxi dress with colorful accessories from Love 21.

Dress: Forever 21 (linked above)

Belt: For Love 21

Earrings: Forever 21

Shoes: Nine West (found at Marshall’s)

Yellow Jeans: Forever 21+

Both Shirts: Material Girl from Macy’s

Shoes: Nine West

RIng: H&amp;M

Bangle: For Love 21

Earrings: Thrifted

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

Music in the Video: Colors by KG

Another great sampling of some pretty sensual music. I rocked these five songs all weekend. While my listening party included lots of wine and scented candles, I am equally enjoying them today, sober.

Take a listen and if you like download these treasures for free!

Peace & Blessings,

Kala

One of the most challenging obstacles for newly naturals is figuring out how to style hair with longevity. Whether you’re new to caring for your hair or a veteran, here you’ll find lots of hairstyling tutorials from YouTube to help! Stay tuned and bookmark this page to stay up-to-date on the hottest and freshest natural hairstyles!

Here’s nother group that’s been untainted by the forces of the industry. The Industry Tragedy = Execs who turn good music into popular music and those who allow the allure of fame to seduce them into accepting it. I discovered Quadron a few years ago. This magical duo consisting of Coco Maja Hastrup Karshøj and musician/producer Robin Hannibal make masterpieces. From time to time I’ll put their self entitled album on repeat. Their music is pure, without even a hint of mainstream music samples.

Today is a Quadron kinda day….

I also found a new song that Coco Maja Hastrup Karshøj lent her voice to. Yes, it’s in Danish. But it’s still velvety deliciousness. 

Enjoy!

It’s no secret that I’m a “lazy natural” I rarely do intricate styles with my hair. I have a life to live! But I really wanted to try a bantu knot out on blow dried hair. I haven’t done a bantu knot out/bun out in so long! Night before last I tried a bantu knot out on blow dried hair using Miss Jessies Curly Pudding. I put a lot of work into it. Probably made 20-25 knots. It was coo. LOL! I mean the volume was great, but I’d hoped for more definition. Plus, at the end of the day my hair felt quite dry from using the Pudding. So the next night I went back to what I know. To replenish my hair back to life I used Shea Mositure’s Curl &amp; Style Milk. I sectioned my hair into four with a … Read More »

After an early meeting at work I checked my email to find a forwarded message from my friend KDizzle. The article is from Essence and surprisingly my face appears! I immediately freak out of course. It was my hope to make the cut for the online gallery when I was asked to take the picture, but to be the featured picture for the outgoing newsletter and the Essence homepage!?!?! Totally unexpected. Still so excited!

The event itself wasn’t what I expected. In my opinion there were more clothing and jewelry vendors than resources for naturals. 

Stage at the Black Girl Long Hair (BGLH) Christmas Fest in Chicago sponsored by Taliah Waajid

Vendors at the Black Girl Long Hair (BGLH) Christmas Fest in Chicago sponsored by Taliah Waajid 

I still loveeee being in the presence of women doing their own thing, rocking the hair that grows from their heads and working it! … Read More »

More washing and going! LOL! I’m really loving my hair after the cut so the wash ‘n’ go has definitely become a staple style. This time I tried Shea Moisture’s Curl Enhancing Smoothie (CES) and Olive Oil Eco-Styler on Day 1. To refresh the next day I used more CES and my Curls Rock styling cream from Cat Walk. I also tried stretching the hair at my roots by blow drying using a concentrator to get more volume and length and to cut down on the shrinkage. Each wash ‘n’ go gets better. Can’t WAIT until I have this style down. 

Videos of the process below! Once I perfect this I will post a tutorial. :)

Peace & Blessings!

KG

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AoNR2SCc4I&feature=player_embedded

One of my favorite girls KDizzleSheFresh mentors young adult women with an organization here in Detroit. When the mentoring program came to an end the girls were awarded with a ceremony. Love events like this and I’m looking forward to mentoring myself! :)

Grew sick of tilapia this week (NOTE: I no longer consume tilapia) so I tried some seared cod by lightly following a food network recipe. Planko (Japanese bread crumbs) are so versatile. I use them for my croquettes and to lightly cover fish or squash. Before I seared the cod I sauteed lots of sweet peppers and onions. Removed them from the pan to sear the belly side of the cod (as the recipe instructs), put the pan in the oven on 400 degrees, removed and let stand. 

I loved it. I want to try different spices next time (just did the black pepper and seal salt medley with a little thyme). If I had some fresh lemons, this dish would have really been a hit. I also roasted some asparagus and steamed some broccoli. My girls who were over for Monday … Read More »

If you follow me on twitter (@KG1913) you already know that I’m working out to lose weight and be healthier before my 28th Bday. I’m calling the whole preparation and party process NYC2012. One thing that has become an obstacle is keeping my hair in tact when working out. Natural textured hairstyles are much easier to maintain than straight styles. BUT the moisture from sweat can still attack your edges. I mentioned this in my update vid where I explained that I braided up my edges every night. Not anymore! I now use my silk scarf as a barrier to absorb the sweat. I take a shower immediately after my workout, cook and clean. Then I take the scarf off and prepare for bed using a different silk scarf to protect my hair at night. No re-braiding necessary!

Above: Last night just before working out.

Below:  This … Read More »

I looooove this dish!

Recently I bought asparagus, brussel sprouts and sweet peppers in bulk from Costco. I’ve roasted a variety of them (with garlic added of course). This dish is so quick and easy. Definitely a 30-minute meal that’s DELISH! I wanted to incorporate cheese somehow so I just laid a slice of the Colby-Jack (I also bought in bulk at Costco) over each filet. the veggies are only roasted with olive oil, salt and pepper. Another staple dish!

BOMB.

Excited about the Cooking with KG Video Series….but which dish should I feature first?

Peace & Blessings,

KG

I’ve been wearing a braid out (15-20 plaits) for the last couple of weeks. I love the stretch that the braids give me. Previously though, I left the ends straight and towards the end of the style they started looking pretty sad. This time I tried to get just a slight curl on the ends using my flexi rods. I think this style looks different because I braided to the end of the plait instead of going for the super curl look featured in my Corinne Bailey Rae Inspired entry. My hope is that this gets bigger and bigger as the days go by!

I did this on co-washed hair with Giovanni Direct-Leave In and Shea Moisture’s Deep Treatment Masque. 

Only applied EVCO when I took it out this morning. If I had used it last night my hair would not be dry now. I’ll … Read More »

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Pure LAZINESS created this look. My wash day was Saturday. I attempted a wash ‘n go with Cantu Shea Butter and Olive Oil Eco-Styler Gel. FAIL! The cantu and the gel don’t work together well. I was a couch potato all Saturday so I just let it dry. Sunday for church I co-washed with Aussie Moist conditioner before church and pulled my hair back into a bun (no gel). Monday I wore the bun again. After my workout and MNF I got home and decided I was sick of the bun so I put my hair into two plaits (old and faithful style) with Direct Leave-In and EVCO and rolled the ends with a pillow roller. All in less than 10 minutes! I tied it down with a satin scarf last night of course. It was a little damp this morning but … Read More »

I could literally wear ANYTHING from this store. I am addicted to the style. Its classy yet progressive and fun! Love, love, love Anthro. I will forever love the clothing here and feel as though I can wear their styles throughout the years. I picked through the sale rack and found a pleated skirt for work and a lovely textured sweater that I’ll also wear to work, but probably not together, LOL! I also signed up to receive their catalog and email updates. The “membership card” comes with a cute little pouch!

Isn’t the texture of this sweater just lovely? The skirt is made so well, its so official.

Stay tuned for more hauls!

One of my favorite styles to wear is a flexi rod set. It’s easy to maintain and lasts for at least a week. I love BIG hair so I continue to separate more day by day. Below you’ll find my Flexi Rod Set Series (Tutorials, Maintenance, BIG HAIR and Styling).

Enjoy!
KG

Goapele’s new single is currently on my radio. I’ve been a looooooong time fan since her debut. The new CD “Break of Dawn” is due out this Fall and I’m struggling to maintain patience waiting for it. 

Listen to her first single “Play” below and you’ll see why!

A blurry picture of Goapele and I in San Diego at her show promoting Change It All.

Graphic and Video Source: goapele.com

At PV Lounge, Dowtown Detroit 2011

Swoon

As I try to become acclimated to this new city of mine I attend social events here and there. Recently I went to an Estelle listening party at the PV Lounge in Downtown Detroit. To my SURPRISE I saw my lovie Andwele Gardner (for you non-obessive fans that’s Dwele) relaxin’, chillin at the bar. Everyone seemed so non-chalant. I didn’t get it. Does no one know of the magical creations he produces?  Old Lovas? My Lady? Is this mic ON? I was like OMG! Dwele! He’s always so nice and receptive of my giddiness (I’ve only met him personally once before). I kindly requested a photo with him. He mentions how short he feels beside my six feet 2 (with heels) stature. We have an in-depth conversation (not really, but I’m claiming it anyway). That’s … Read More »

Love the giveaway that Shirley B. Eniang is doing. The prizes are super cool. My favorite part of the gift set is the eyeshadow. If I win, it would be my first eyeshadow! Sad, I know.

 Welp, here it goes:

My favorite Bag or Purse is this multi-colored bag I got 3 or 4 years ago from Aldo.

It’s got teal, a vibrant red or magenta, yellow and brown. Love these colors together! Some days I wish I could turn it inside out because the lining is adorable as well!

If you follow my blog or watch my videos you know that I love versatility. This purse has clipped or hooked on handles, so I can take them off and add my own! A scarf or chain or anything I can fit through the holes would do.

 Contents:

Judging from these contents I’m quite boring actually…

 I’ve … Read More »

What I’ve Learned

“Going natural” can be a daunting task. Although I transitioned by accident in 2002, I wasn’t caring for my hair properly until earlier this year (2011). My journey has been very rewarding, and as I continue to grow I learn more and more. Here are somethings I’ve learned.

Photographer: My Mommy

Camera: My Mommy’s Nikon

Editing: None

Title Inspiration: The blooms of Spring in my neighborhood

Click here for the video!

Camera: MacBook

Editing: iPhoto ’08

Title Inspiration: Amel Larrieux -’ Earn My Affections’ (Album: Morning)

Click here for the video!

I wanted to highlight these earrings because I’ve gotten some questions about them. While in Dubai (click here for the Dubai Travel Showcase) I was shopping – OF COURSE! I picked these up at the Forever 21 thinking they would be unique. Six months later at the 21 in the Beverly Center, Beverly Hills, Ca I see the same ones. :-/  I had them first though! LOL!

It’s not everyday you hear something that makes you say “Hmmmm” or even “Mmmmmm”. This music made me say both. Over and over again. 

My favorites:

morninG light.

Save My Generation 

4 The 1st Time

Sometimes iii Think About You

Like the whole album actually. Loving the REAL instruments they use, and the vibe they give off. It’s like they are declaring: “Don’t you DARE put us in a genre, we just ARE”.

Officially Addicted.

 Peace & Blessings,

Kala